Showing posts with label Confessions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Confessions. Show all posts

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Phew, Ok, we're all together again...now what?

It was a very creepy feeling to log into FT and find half of you gone. Not just gone, but vanished. All the jokes, bitching, heartache etc, deleted from this world (although probably still in the archive!).

What a big relief to find everyone again. We're almost there on getting everyone via the blog or the group. Deep breath. Yay!!

Even better, we now have options (even though we don't have ninja smilies. I'll look into how we can get that.) As a group, we now have to find our feet on how we want to keep supporting each other.

I'm not a techno geek, but I use quite a few groups and blogs. In general, I find groups are great for quick chit chat and transient stuff and comments. Blogs are really good for people to communicate on something they feel strongly about, something they want to make available to a wider audience. I see that some of our gang already even have their own blogs!

I don't know if KB has this blog set to public, but if she does, then that will allow other IF folks to find us. And if they read some of the incredible stories, insights, commentaries and observations that you ladies have shown such great capacity for on FT, and could post here too, then we might be able to help these new folks. FT did have that ability - that people found us in the JJJA's and Confessions threads and decided we were kindred spirits.

If I were to throw a straw man out there for picking at, I'd like to think that the Confessions blog is a long term, solid, living document, posted to by people who care about eachother and total strangers who may alight here seeking our brand of support. It will generate discussion, and comments and further insight. Links to similar blogs and other stories.

The google group is more of an 'in the moment' gathering space, a place to alight and bitch while you've got stuff going on, but where things come and go and topics evolve and change and you can tune in and out. Perhaps when someone posts something that generates a great deal of discussion on the group, we can cross post onto the blog because it will perhaps be useful to a broader audience?

These are my two cents. I'm going to try and search the FT archive to see if some of the gems from Confessions might still be around for grabbing and re-posting here. Maybe if any of you subscribed to the email feed you'll have them in your inbox archives?! But if not, then we'll have to all think back to what moved us, what really helped us, and try to regenerate those thoughts and many new ones, here.

Serious Respect Vibes to all ladies with IF.
Kiellara.

In Search of A Few Good Women

Kiellara (of Who Shot My Stork?) and I (of this blog) are still hoping to get contact information for the remaining "lost" girls from the original Confessions.  If anyone has contact information, please let them know we're looking for them and we miss them.  (Refer to the list in the Original Confessions post below.)

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Original Confessions

Once upon a time, on another website, there was an epic thread called "Confessions." This thread was a haven for practical, realistic, sharp-witted girls who got sick of the unicorn-riding, rainbow-kissing, "babydust"-spewing nitwits on nearly every other IVF forum/thread in existence. It is rumored that these women were the descendants of an ancient tribe of infertility warriors called "IVF Veterans." Both groups of women were attacked by a vicious monster, wielding the powerful Club of Censorship. For a time, the women dispersed...many presumed them dead. Their collective strength could not be denied and they soon reconvened...with a wit more biting, a resolve more steadfast, and a powerful weapon of their own: Freedom of Speech!

Calling all JJJAs, Confessions Girls, and FT Rejects!:

MangoPuppy - Found
GoldeLox07 - Found
HolmesHX2 - Found
Ravenswood419 - Found
MrsEshaw - Found
LAP (aka Baroness von Utero) - Found
rie1051 - Found
bbchi - Found
oli - Found
Kiellara - Found
Beka05 - Found
Pemmie - Found
Kelsey00 - Found
barren-bipolar - Found
HRD - Found
summerdays - Found
demold - Found
BabytoB - Found
Momsie - Found
JPS23 - Found
Jes - Found
cvpis4me - Found

Kindhiker - Found
deanandkrissy- Found
bobbiesuehicks- Found
smittygirl- Found
curiousme - Found
hope2bpregnant - Found 
BabyWarrior - Found
...and anyone else I've forgotten

We welcome any new girls who think they might fit in with our rebellious and "scarcastic" ways!